Introduction to Soul Keeping

What is a Soul Keeper(TM) and how is it different that just parenting? A Soul Keeper(TM) is a conscious parent who recognizes that a baby has a bright, authentic and wonderful soul. Thus, a Soul Keeper(TM) helps their baby retain that sparkle and the connection to their own authenticity and their soul.

Originally posted 2012-08-08 20:10:39.

Life Doesn’t Suck – Video 1

Whether you’re in paradise or going about the tasks of your everyday, life doesn’t suck.

As humans have an incredibly powerful tool to help make sure that life doesn’t suck. This tool helps us to change your experience, no matter your circumstances. That tool is imagination.

In your imagination you have the power to create vast and infinite worlds that are filled with the energies that help you to transform yourself and your environment. By making your inner world a place that you want to be it will reflect in your outer world.

Use your imagination to create a magical world that doesn’t suck.

Watch the video above to learn more about how using your imagination can help you to transform your life for the better.

Originally posted 2012-08-06 16:38:20.

In The Flow: Unbending Intent – Part 3 Directing

Evolution Of Your Beliefs

People used to believe that to be authentic and especially to be spiritual, one had to be free off imperfections. Fortunately, this limiting belief is changing. We are more and more coming to recognize that being authentic, spiritual, evolved and even divine don’t mean we must be perfect. We are realizing that we must be whole and embrace all of ourselves.

How else can the now moment be lived in? Every minute of your life, you are the feelings, actions, thoughts and energies that you are. These won’t and can’t always be spiritual; the spiritual or wise thing to do with the sum of who you are is to allow it all.

Command It All

This is a great part of what distinguishes our ability to manifest or create life from our inability to. When we are in a place of alignment to our Source Energy and we are embracing it all, then we are in the flow of allowing. We can then tap into the flow of creativity, imagination or anything else that is expansive or unlimited.

Directing The Flow of Creation

In your Golden Flow(TM) you get to a place of this alignment, a place that is free of charges and then you can use the power of your word or intention in living and experiencing what you prefer.

While we cannot demand or request things of life, as these become energies that are not aligned to the creative energy of being and having what we want, we can direct the flow. To make this point simpler to understand, think of yourself driving a car. You can only direct the car by being aligned to how it works, which is being in the flow of your Source Energy when creating in your life. You can only buy a car, but you cannot make a car in the sense that the raw materials and physical mechanics are provided by life. Finally, you cannot demand or request that the car take you somewhere, rather you need to use your alignment to drive the car yourself. Keeping a charge-free state tends to help you make safe driving choices to avoid getting side tracked or cause an accident out of an anger charge, for example.

As contradictory as it sounds, you must therefore let your charges go in order to have what you want; you must go with the flow in order to direct it and you must be your Source (aligned to) letting go of what you desire in order to direct the flow of creativity and bring forth what you desire. As complicated as this can be, and is for each of us– otherwise life would be just as we wished it to– it can also be natural and simple, just like our breathing. It is just a matter of our being in our Golden Flow.

Originally posted 2012-07-19 17:00:39.

In The Flow: Unbending Intent – Part 2

Charge-Free Being

We recently gave a workshop in which participants came into their state of flow and connected with their Source Energy to work on increasing the flow of their own authenticity. One woman was doing very well the first half of the workshop. She was seeing her life from a different energetic perspective and was feeling the connection and love of her Source. Life, for her, was becoming a beautiful thing that she could handle and enjoy. In between the workshop there was a free day during which her interactions with others brought up her charges. Whether it was feeling that the world was being unfair with her, that she was being over charged at the hotel or being offended by what another said to her, she went from a state of flowing to being out of her flow and being all charged up.

Charges are our own energy out of flow. This occurs when something happens to us which we cannot or do not let go of. Instead, we keep the experience outside of us, feeling that people, feelings or experiences that we avoid, deny or reject will then be unable to affect or hurt us. We do the opposite when we instead try to bring something to us, grasping or pulling for attention, an experience or a feeling, misperceiving that not being in our now moment experience, but rather trying to bring another to us, will do so.

Charges are just a part of life. They are a part of the energies that we deal with in life and a part of what helps us understand the difference between being in the flow of life, where everything seems to run smoothly, and being out of the flow, in which things set us off.

Originally posted 2012-07-18 17:00:13.

In The Flow: Unbending Intent – Part 1

Demanding Creation: Does This Work Or Do You Get Pushed Back?

I recently saw a video interview of a woman who spoke well of the way we create or manifest things in our lives. She spoke of demanding, which required being free of judgment, conclusions and such.

This was great to hear because, while it needs some clarification, I don’t hear this often and it is true. Yes, we are meant to use the power of our word, as my old teacher don Miguel Ruiz used to say, in order to create in our lives. Our word, as such, is also synonymous in this case with our intentions. However, demanding will get you know where. Just look at a child (or an adult behaving like a child) demanding things– because no one likes for things to be demanded of them, demanding generally causes people not to give us what we want. Life is the same.

Actually, You Won’t Create Anything Alone

An advanced concept that we often speak of in classes is the fact that we need to shift our way of thinking from that of trying to make things to a more accurate perception of allowing things to come forward and to happen. The key difference being that when our egos are put aside, we come to recognize that we don’t create anything.

Joke:

After years of research, a geneticist finally learns to create a human out of dirt. The researcher is so proud, wins many awards for the ground-breaking work and goes to God and says “Look! We can create life! We don’t need you any more!” God chuckles and responds, “Great! I’ll take my dirt back!”

No matter what you do, as you advance on your personal path, you come to realize that your thoughts, creativity, and anything needed to bring these to life never comes exclusively from you. Whether athletes call it ‘being in the zone”, writers call it ‘hearing’ the story and just recording it or the solution to a problem comes through a dream, generally speaking the people who have the most creativity, ideas or abilities find that they alone aren’t responsible. They recognize that they are the vessel through which their Source Energy or their Soul flows their creativity, solution or imagination , which they are fortunate to experience.

Commanding The Flow of Creation

Yes, there is a need to come from an aligned place in order to bring your word, or intention, into your experience. However, to do so, you must go beyond releasing attachments and judgments. You must be in your Golden Flow(TM).

When you are in your Golden Flow(TM) you are in a state of being which is connected to your Source Energy. This state is naturally allowing of life, of your connection and of yourself; most importantly, you are in a charge-free state as well. At this point, where you end and where your Source Energy begins is blurred and anything you ask, or command, comes forward quickly.

Originally posted 2012-07-17 17:46:32.

Freak Out Your Wonderful Day

“Hold the press, stop the world and freak out!”

That was today’s message from life when a client paniced because I didn’t take care of an important calendar event listing that I didn’t know about. Wait! How do I take care of what I don’t know about and why do I feel so bad and so responsible?

A Major Wrench

Talk about getting me out of the flow! Life has these glitches and throws a wrench in the clockworks -and- life knows how to personalize these, torturing each of us in a precisely perfect suited way for us. So much for my wonderful day…

The reason these are custom-made tortures is that we all have our own energy. Like a computer program that is precise, our energy precisely works with life to create our perfect hell. How perfectly horrible!

Now, you may be thinking, ‘Geez, Kalyn, what’s the problem? No client can threaten that there’s going to be ‘trouble’ if you don’t do what you aren’t asked to do!’ You may even be thinking that I should be chewing my client out – and you aren’t wrong. However, I know me and my energy. Yes, I needed (and did) talk with my client, but it’s all me. At this point in my path, I’m wise enough to recognize my buttons and my issues at play. I’m wise enough not to think that my client, who apologized without my demanding or chastizing them, loves me and always refers new business to us. No, it’s not my client, it’s me and my issues at play.

We all have issues we are working on refining in this life. We all have karma, which attracts these issues, and so we all play out the same things over and over. What things? They are energies out of flow that we are refining. In life it looks like the same problems that happen over and over. For example, I have a deep issue with responsibility and feeling responsible when I’m not. This is why, after the notorious morning phone call, I sat with my energy and how the situation made me feel. I flowed the experience and made a choice to not be angry at my client, but not take responsibility when the responsibility really wasn’t mine. The only reason I was able to make that choice is because I’d flowed the energy, getting some of the ‘stuck’ energy unstuck.

Re-Condense Your Reality

Flowing your energy is so amazing and so transformative that it can change the solidity of life. In other words, things that are set in stone can, will and often do change. They will simply evaporate and re-condense in a more appealing way. How do you work this magic? You flow your experience.

For me this meant that by the time I went and saw my client for our 11:00 meeting, his office mate had explained my role and had pointed out that he was holding me accountable for something we were never asked to do. So, I walked in, expressed myself and was met with a wave of apologies. It is important to me to keep happy clients, especially the ones who say yes to testimonials and refer us, so this was a small victory.

And now my karmatic energy is more in flow- no more need to freak out because all is well, as it is meant to be in the flow.

Originally posted 2012-07-10 18:39:42.